18-year-old babysits her little cousins every day: when she asks her aunt for a salary, an uproar breaks out

by Mark Bennett

March 12, 2022

18-year-old babysits her little cousins every day: when she asks her aunt for a salary, an uproar breaks out
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Family relationships are never simple and nobody likes the idea of ruining them, even when you are convinced that you are in the right. However, sometimes things can reach a point where enough is enough. An 18-year-old young woman explained on Reddit how her uncles take advantage of her availability and leave their children with her all day. Looking after two 1-year-old twins and another 8-year-old baby is not at all easy and doing it for free, 5 days a week, from 8 in the morning to 8 in the evening, is even less so. The girl's uncles work a lot, but when they were asked to pay at least £ 80 a week, they were furious: "We are a family - you don't do these types of thing for money!". The girl asked Reddit users for their advice, and the users were absolutely supportive of the young woman and told her that she was right to ask for a minimum wage.

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The young woman wrote that she babysits her 1- and 8-year old cousins ​​every day. The eldest child is in school most of the time and she just has to pick him up and make sure he does his homework and has his dinner. The 1-year-old twins, on the other hand, a boy and a girl, are much more challenging to manage for a whole day. The young woman has no time to do anything for herself. She doesn't even have time to look for a job because she spends her entire day at her uncles' house babysitting. And it is precisely for this reason that she proposed to her aunt and uncle that they pay her £ 80 pounds a week - much less than she could earn in a full-time job and very affordable for her uncles (who would never find a babysitter for such a low fee).
 
The uncles, however, did not take this proposal well at all: "It seems making this suggestion was a huge mistake however as my aunt flew into a rage and ranted about how unfair it would be to charge family members for babysitting and pointed out to me the fact that I have free access to their WiFi and their food," the young woman said. However, she pointed out that having to care full-time for two 1-year-old children, she did not have a single minute to surf the internet and that she brought food from home anyway, as she is vegan and unable to eat 90% of what she found in her relative's fridge.

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Pexels / Not the actual photo

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The young woman's mother is absolutely on her side, but she has argued with her sister about this situation and now they don't talk to each other anymore. The  young babysitter is sorry for having created these tensions within her family, for making such a request, and she now wonders if she should have just kept quiet. Reddit users reassured and supported her and even advised her to spend her days in a more productive way : "You're young - you should be thinking about your future."

It sure isn't nice to argue with your family, but there are some issues that just cannot be ignored. What do you think about this story?

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