For a mother, her son might be the only "true love" she needs in her life

by Shirley Marie Bradby

November 14, 2018

For a mother, her son might be the only "true love" she needs in her life
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In the world of fairy tales, we have always seen that there is a girl or woman in search of her Prince Charming, who will make her dream come true, who will love her, and treat her like a real princess.

In the real world, the fairy tale is changed somewhat, but in fact, the person who someone chooses to love does to some degree personify their Prince Charming.

In any case, no matter how stable a relationship is, it will still be necessary to take into account reality or the fact that love can change or end. 

So, does Prince Charming only exist in fairy tales? No. For mothers, their real and true Prince Charming is their beloved son.

via Psychological Science

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It is not a question of having preferences between male and female children and, in any case, it is normal for every woman to live maternity differently - in terms of feelings - depending on the sex of the child. In the case of males, much more likely, a woman will nurture a feeling that is very similar to the love felt for a Prince Charming as described in fairy tales. 

On her son, a woman will project a halo of kindness, spiritual transparency, and honesty that in the world of fairy tales revolves around the figure of a Prince Charming. It is with her son that a woman will feel the emotion of being deeply tied to another human being, who will never betray her, as we all would like it to be in real life as well. 

With a son, a mother will feel her heart melt as she gazes into those two big eyes that stare back at her, that smile at her, and who even without speaking make her feel valued and appreciated as a woman; for having given birth to him and for keeping him alive by providing him with nourishment and constant care. 

Probably, the love between a mother and her son is closest to the ideal of unconditional love. This little man fills the days of a woman with love, serenity, and challenges. In fact, her baby son will soon begin to grow, and at that point, his mother will teach him to take his first steps alone towards his life, but forever knowing that he will always occupy a place in her heart. 

There will be no remorse or regrets because a mother comforts herself with the certainty of having given birth to a human being who has saved her and allowed her to see the beauty that life is made of. That is why we can say that for every mother, having a son is like having found her true Prince Charming, forever.

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